Step 1 – Identify Unrighteous Behavior Patterns


Righteous Growth – Identify Unrighteous Patterns (Step 1)

🔍 Step 1 – Identify Unrighteous Behavior Patterns

Self‑observation · Pattern recognition · Personal reflection

Answer honestly based on your typical behavior over the last 2–3 months.
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A. Inner Attitudes

🔵 1 = Never/Rarely   2 = Occasionally   3 = Sometimes   4 = Often   5 = Almost always
A1. I feel secretly annoyed when someone else succeeds or is praised.1 2 3 4 5
A2. I hold onto anger or resentment longer than I should.1 2 3 4 5
A3. I compare myself to others and feel that I deserve more than them.1 2 3 4 5
A4. I look down on people who are different from me.1 2 3 4 5
A5. I act humble on the outside but feel proud or superior inside.1 2 3 4 5

B. Relationships & Speech

🔵 1 = Never/Rarely   2 = Occasionally   3 = Sometimes   4 = Often   5 = Almost always
B1. I blame others for my mistakes instead of owning them.1 2 3 4 5
B2. I lie or exaggerate to make myself look better or avoid trouble.1 2 3 4 5
B3. I gossip or share negative things about someone when they are not present.1 2 3 4 5
B4. I try to control or manipulate people to get what I want.1 2 3 4 5
B5. I ignore or avoid someone who has hurt me, instead of speaking honestly with them.1 2 3 4 5

C. Reactions to Stress or Conflict

🔵 1 = Never/Rarely   2 = Occasionally   3 = Sometimes   4 = Often   5 = Almost always
C1. When I am criticized, my first reaction is to get defensive or argue back.1 2 3 4 5
C2. I react with anger, yelling, or sarcasm more quickly than I would like.1 2 3 4 5
C3. I shut down, withdraw, or give the silent treatment when upset.1 2 3 4 5
C4. I do something impulsive (spending, substances, revenge text) to escape bad feelings.1 2 3 4 5
C5. I avoid difficult conversations or responsibilities by disappearing or procrastinating.1 2 3 4 5

D. Accountability & Integrity

🔵 1 = Never/Rarely   2 = Occasionally   3 = Sometimes   4 = Often   5 = Almost always
D1. I make excuses for my bad behavior (“that’s just how I am”, “they made me do it”).1 2 3 4 5
D2. I break promises or commitments without a good reason.1 2 3 4 5
D3. I hide certain habits or actions from people who care about me (parents, friends, partner).1 2 3 4 5
D4. I know the right thing to do, but I choose the easy or selfish thing instead.1 2 3 4 5
D5. I avoid admitting I was wrong, even when I know I was.1 2 3 4 5

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